west coast dreams

they/them/their pronouns
unceded lekwungen territories
(victoria, bc)

“There’s that word again. Need. I need you. I need you to need me. How nauseating, to need another human being, as if their heart is in your throat. Love isn’t about need. Don’t romanticize the notion of desperation. Let me let you in on a secret: you don’t need me and I don’t need you. We can get through life just fine without each other. Love is not wanting to. We want each other, we want skin and hands and all our daily scars. We want intoxication and art museums and intertwined limbs. We want ferocity in our lips and slow, small circles traced on our stomachs. I don’t need you in my life, but goddamn I want you in it.”

—   All the Want in the World Cannot Fit in Our Hands (via typewriterdaily)

(via mylovingyou)


you can totally do this.


you can totally do this.

(via mylovingyou)

I’m having one of those days where the only road to happiness is a Big Mac

“One of my goals in thinking about redefining the way we view relationships is to try to treat the people I date more like I treat my friends—try to be respectful and thoughtful and have boundaries and reasonable expectations—and to try to treat my friends more like my dates—to give them special attention, honor my commitments to them, be consistent, and invest deeply in our futures together.”

—   Dean Spade (via ethiopienne)

(via mylovingyou)

“Not queer like gay. Queer like, escaping definition. Queer like some sort of fluidity and limitlessness at once. Queer like a freedom too strange to be conquered. Queer like the fearlessness to imagine what love can look like…and pursue it.”

—   Brandon Wint (via missmeownicorn)

(Source: ethiopienne, via riotboygrrl)

“Nobody will ever love you as much as an artist can. On your worst days, they will find poetry in the knots of your hair.”

—   That Could Have Been Me (k.p.k). (via nyu-tah)

(Source: towritepoems, via fuckyeahwoolsocks)


Shadow Boxes by Sally Harless

(via oh-noah)

“I do not need someone to complete me
but if you wanted to
we could walk next to each other
into whatever is coming next.”

—     (via virginityclub)

(via fearinthewater)